My kind of advice!

1. Aspire to be Barbie - the bitch has everything.

2. If the shoe fits - buy them in every color.

3. Take life with a pinch of salt.... A wedge of lime, and a shot of tequila.

4. In need of a support group? - Cocktail hour with the girls!

5. Go on the 30 day diet. (I'm on it and so far I've lost 15 days).

6. When life gets you down - just put on your big girl panties and deal with it.

7. Let your greatest fear be that there is no PMS and this is just your personality.

8. I know I'm in my own little world, but it's ok. They know me here.

9. Lead me not into temptation, I can find it myself.

10. Don't get your knickers in a knot; it solves nothing and makes you walk funny.

11. When life gives you lemons in 2010 - turn it into lemonade then mix it with vodka.

12. Remember wherever there is a good looking, sweet, single, or married man there is some woman tired of his bull!

13. Keep your chin up, only the first 40 years of parenthood are the hardest.


14. If it has Tires or Testicles, it's gonna give you trouble.

15. By the time a woman realizes her mother was right, she has a daughter who thinks she's wrong.

Exciting Developments

For the past 2 nights I have been on the phone with MC until midnight - not discussing the ex, just everything else.

We are laughing like schoolkids, and getting to know each other.

This is the MC I know from the wedding, this is the MC I am losing my heart to!

He seems to be handling the breakup alot better and says my speeches have helped him.

Without sounding arrogant, I give very good advice on relationships - because I have had a few doozies myself and I always like to analyse them and look at the lesson I can take from all the bad experiences.

And I enjoy giving advice if it means I can help people.

The more I talk to him, the more I realise that he is the type of guy that is right for me.

I ask him all sorts of curveball questions and he has answered them so well.

I like to aks crazy questions like: What would you like engraved on your tombstone when you die?

The answer would say alot about a person and how they would liek to be remembered.

MC even ased me when I am coming to visit him in Durban.

We are making progress - I am taking it slow because he still has alot to get over, but I am hoping this is the beginning of great things to come!

Woza Friday!

"Have great hopes and dare to go all out for them. Have great dreams and dare to live them. Have tremendous expectations and believe in them."

Heartaches & Breakups & Work all SUCK!

Same shit different day!

I am so not cut out for this working thing!

Anyway - moving on...

My friend Tee has recently broken up with her boyfriend of 2 weeks, a week ago.

And she is handling it so badly.

Crying all day, wanting to call him and beg him to take her back, wanting to cancel our weekend plans because she says she will not be good company.

They have almost been apart as long as they were together!

I am struggling to be a supportive friend.

I check on her every day to see how she is doing and I keep her occupied and I sms her when she is having a weak moment.

But when do I get tough?

I can understand heartache - I have that with MC.

I have been giving him advice on his breakup, and I have a while to go before he gets over the break up.

I hope I don't help him find himself and help him see how amazing he is just in time to meet another woman!

Oh Gees -  that would be my luck!

News Flash

MC called me on Friday.

I was shockd & slightly tipsy at the time of his call - & it was amazing to hear his voice again  even if he is suffering with the flu.

SO being slightly tipsy I asked him why he is calling me after his non answer answered my sms.

He replied he thinks I am silly because I should know that he likes hearing from me and he has been thinking of me alot. (Darn my crystal ball must be on the blink again)

He said that he is going through a tough time with his breakup and I need to give him some time. WHich I can appreciate and he did tell me the last day he was here.

I am glad he called me though and he said i must pick up the phone if i want to chat to him - and he told me I can call him on Sat if I like - which i did.

He called me today again to tell me that he has seen his ex twice but they are not getting back together.

Thy had a huge fight today because of some pictures I posted on FB and tagged him in - all innocent party pictures mind you.

So for an hour I lectured him on how she has no rights to comment on anything in his life anymore because she is not a part of his life anymore.

I told him to maintain his dignity and stop thinking about her and how much she is hurting, he needs to get himself right now. he told me she is bad for him - there is no way i am letting him get back together with her!

Reason 1: She sounds like she was really bad for him - any woman who take all your self confidence away from you is bad news.

Reason 2: I want him.

MC is an amazing guy and I am not passing up the opportunity to be with him.

And I will not let a woman ruin the person I know he is.

This is my mission.

I saw a Falling Star on Saturday and made a wish - a part of that wish is that MC would be happy - the other part was that he and I would get together (& that would make me happy and it would make him happy!)

Can anyone see my Stupid Grin? Yes... MC called me!! (Insert flashing hearts coming out of my eyes)