At my 1st ever recent #JhbBloggerMeetup (to be blogged about soon) organised by Johlet over at Our Journey to Everywhere I was listening to all the lovely ladies chatting and after Sue Levy's inspirational talk (Follow her on @Sue_Levy or read her Blog) I realised/learnt a few things:
- I shouldn't worry about how often I blog. I was always stressing about not blogging every day. Now I feel fine with it as long as I blog regularly.
- I should blog about what I want. Not worry about what others want to read. This blog is for ME. that was the whole reason I started blogging in the first place.
- A schedule makes a whole lot of difference. I have my regular #ManicureMonday and #TravelTuesday posts, but I never read enough. I know how have a Bookmarks folder for every day of the week and I read a handful of blogs every day.
- Leave a comment. We all like a bit of love, so it is really important to leave a comment. I committed to commenting, even if it is a smiley face. Kind of a "Flirty30 was Here"
Having said this though - when I have to fill in those silly comment moderation things with the numbers and letters, I usually get it wrong. If you have that in your blog and I don't comment as often, that's because even when wearing my glasses I still got the letters wrong and gave up! (It is the thought that counts though!) - Reply to your comments as much as you can. When people take the time to comment on your blog, try to show your appreciation.
- Don't judge others. We are all human. I was feeling pretty self concious about getting there and being the only girl without expertly applied make-up and perfect nails. I wasn't. Apart from a few absolutely gorgeous girls who belong on magazine covers (yes "sparkle shoes" you are 1 of them) we are all pretty much normal girls with a variety of interests and tastes. Yet we all had our love of blogging in common and that got us off to a great start.
- Start that blog. Don't be afraid. If you want to do it. Go for it. Do it for you. Enjoy it.
Thank you for this - I needed to hear it!!
ReplyDeleteIt's a pleasure! Glad I could help!
DeleteBlogging has really changed my life and I am so happy to have met everyone this past weekend! It was a lovely day. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree Luzanne - it's nice to meet people we know we have something in common with already! :-)
DeleteAgreed!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd if it wasn't for blogging I would have not met you great bunch of ladies!!!
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Exactly Johlet! :-)
DeleteThis motivated me even more :)
ReplyDeleteI am really glad - looking forward to reading your blog one day Mariaan! :-)
DeleteLove this post! Make me feel better about not blogging every day either! xoxo
ReplyDeleteYay! I am so glad I could help! :-)
DeleteGreat Post, exactly what i needed to read :)
ReplyDeleteexactly what i needed to read :) great post
ReplyDeleteI am so sad I missed the meet up :(
ReplyDeleteGreat advice you shared. And I hear you about the word verification thingies - seriously!!
Hopefully I am there for the next one
A great post! Thank you!!
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