I've recently met somebody. And I really like him. Except it's been so long since I dated that:
1: I'm hopelessly out of touch
2: I'm not sure how to approach the whole "wait 1 day to contact him / name your children etc etc "
I've been single for 2.5 years and I'm ready to begin dating. Especially when I meet a cute, intelligent, decent guy.
I don't want to let the opportunity pass me by with him thinking I'm not interested. But at the same time I can't be too eager.
I'm naturally a talkative person and I love Whatsapp but I find that I need to curb my natural reflex to contact him when I'm thinking about him (which I find myself doing alot lately )
We've been out alone together twice, and we have a great time together, talking into the early hours of the morning. We have great chemistry and I am ridiculously comfortable with him. And my cat loves him- all good signs. BUT.... He seems to be content to "let things happen at a leisurely pace" and it's beginning to frustrate me. I'm more of a "let's make this happen" type of person.
I don't want to get pushy and potentially ruin this, but I just wish I knew how he felt about me!
He's only been single for 6 months (3 year relationship ) so I guess I should give him time?
But what if I give him time and it turns out that He's just not that into me?
I wish I could just touch a piece of litmus paper to his skin and it would turn red to show he likes me or blue to show he doesn't .
Give me strength.. I despise all this second- guessing and wondering.